Speaking Life: The Power of Our Words

Words are powerful tools that can build up or tear down, heal or harm. The Bible offers wisdom on the impact of our speech, teaching us that what we say reflects the state of our hearts and shapes our relationships with others. On Sunday, we’ll dive into the lesson from “The Power of Our Words,” uncovering how Jesus and the apostles emphasized the importance of wise, gracious communication. By aligning our speech with God’s love, we can build encouragement, kindness, and forgiveness in our daily lives.

The Heart’s Overflow: Jesus on the Power of Words
Jesus made it clear that our words are a window into our hearts. In Matthew 12:34b, He said, “For the mouth speaks from the overflow of the heart.” This means that what we say—whether it’s “I love you” or “You’ll never amount to anything”—reveals our inner character. He further emphasized in Matthew 12:37 that “by your words you will be acquitted, and by your words you will be condemned,” underscoring the weight of our speech. Words aren’t just fleeting; they carry eternal significance. Jesus also warned in Matthew 15:18 that harmful words can “defile” us, staining our hearts and relationships. Simply put, our speech is a mirror, reflecting what’s inside us—good or bad.

This truth challenges us to examine our hearts. Are we speaking from a place of love and gratitude, or are bitterness and anger slipping out? The lesson reminds us that kind words, like “You did a great job,” can encourage others, while harsh words can wound deeply. By filling our hearts with God’s truth, we can ensure our words bring life, not death, as Proverbs 18:21 declares.

The Holy Spirit’s Guidance for Godly Speech
The New Testament provides clear instructions for how Christians should communicate. Ephesians 4:29 urges us, “No foul language should come from your mouth, but only what is good for building up someone in need, so that it gives grace to those who hear.” Our words should be like gifts, offering encouragement and hope. Similarly, Colossians 4:6 advises that our speech be “gracious, seasoned with salt,” meaning it should be thoughtful and appealing, tailored to bless each person we meet.

On the flip side, scripture warns against the dangers of harmful speech. James 3:6 describes the tongue as “a fire” that can set our lives ablaze with unrighteousness. Proverbs 16:27 adds that malicious words are like “a scorching fire,” burning those around us. Someone rightly said, “Mean hearts produce mean speech.” Ephesians 4:30-31 calls us to remove bitterness, anger, and slander from our lives, replacing them with kindness and compassion (Ephesians 4:32). This contrast between a selfish, hurtful heart and a caring, forgiving one is stark. As Christians, our speech should reflect a heart transformed by the Holy Spirit, inspiring love and good works (Hebrews 10:24).

Practical Steps to Speak with Wisdom
So, how do we harness the power of our words for good? First, listen well. James 1:19 advises, “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger.” By truly hearing others before responding, we show respect and avoid hasty, hurtful words. Second, think before you speak. Colossians 3:8 encourages us to put away anger, malice, and filthy language. Before speaking, ask, “Will this build up or tear down?” This pause can prevent regret. Third, don’t give in to anger. Numbers 20:10-12 recounts how Moses’ angry words at Meribah cost him the chance to enter the Promised Land. Anger-fueled outbursts can have lasting consequences, so let’s take a breath and choose peace instead.

These steps aren’t always easy, but they’re essential. By listening attentively, reflecting on our words, and keeping anger in check, we align our speech with God’s heart. The result? Conversations that honor Him and bless others.

A Heart That Speaks Life
Ephesians 4:29-32 presents a powerful contrast. A mean, selfish heart doesn’t care about the pain it causes, spewing words that wound. In contrast, a caring heart is kind, tender, and forgiving, using words to encourage and uplift. As Christians, our speech reveals our hearts. Are we reflecting God’s love, or are we letting bitterness take root? The choice is ours.

This week, let’s challenge ourselves to speak life. Try this: each day, intentionally say something kind to someone—a compliment, a thank-you, or an encouraging word. Watch how it changes their day and yours. Additionally, pray for a heart filled with God’s grace, asking Him to guide your words. As we align our hearts with His, our speech will become a beacon of hope, fostering love and unity in our homes, churches, and communities.

Final Thoughts
The power of our words is undeniable. They can spark joy or sorrow, build bridges or walls. Scripture calls us to wield this power wisely, letting our speech reflect a heart transformed by God’s love. As Maya Angelou once said, “People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” Let’s make others feel valued and loved through our words. This week, let’s commit to listening well, speaking thoughtfully, and choosing kindness. Together, we can make our words a force for good, shining God’s light in every conversation.

Those Serving
CALL TO WORSHIP/PRAYER
Matthew Ringle
SONG LEADER
Jim Grushon
LEAD LORD'S SUPPER
Matthew Barnhart
 ASSIST LORD’S SUPPER
Randy Mullins
David Williams
Mike Rosato
Justin Spargo
SCRIPTURE READING
Chris Terrian
Matthew 12:33-37
PREACHING
Matthew Allen
CLOSING PRAYER
Bob Hoopes
CLOSING COMMENTS
Russ Robins
WELCOME CENTER
Richard Jacobs // Tina Jacobs
USHERS
Rich Walker
COMMUNION PREP
Vicki Mullins
CLOSING THE BUILDING
Daniel Spargo